How not to break a leg falling from the roof of a house? All you can do is group up and mitigate the consequences. It is the same with our gentle companions of life. “Let's be friends”, “it's not about you, it's about me” - banal and excuses for a breakup that only cause irritation. At the request of TTR, Dmitry Kagdin, the author of the Cozy Psychology public, came up with five phrases that you need to say to a girl so that she takes your departure as painlessly as possible and does not want to kill you, at least in the first five minutes of the conversation.

There are no feelings that were before

A phrase that strikes at the widespread, modern opinion that love is not eternal. In a sense, you can show the girl that feelings are fading. This is especially useful if she was naive and believed that you were sent to her from heaven. Many books claim that feelings can go away. The revelations of people also tell that "there are no those feelings that were during the first date." Every girl knows this, but hides these fears deep inside. It’s easier to live like this than to shake every day, crossing out a three-year calendar, at the end of which love will surely die. If we hit this place, we will provoke her personal growth, which we can then brag about to friends. Yes, and her suffering will pass faster, because subconsciously she was ready for such an outcome.

See, right now you think I'm the one, but when you date me, you might miss true love

Sweet honey for girl's ears. The natural reaction would be rejection, but the phrase itself is a classic Trojan horse. Accepting her with a refusal, the girl will emotionally load your words, and later, having figured them out, she will understand that there is a prince who is waiting for her, and you were just his likeness. The embedded meaning conveys a message to her - “you need to look for another, why waste time for suffering. This is a modernized and non-aggressive phrase due to its originality: “You will find yourself better.”

I'm sorry honey, I'm not a sadist. My love is gone, and if we do not part, I will torment you with this. I can't do that

With this phrase, you show that you still care about her, and make it clear that if she does not let you go, it will be worse for her. There will be no more Friday flowers, anniversary celebrations, gifts and attention. In general, everything that a girl needs. At the same time, you mean that you don’t want such a life for her. You remain for her a good friend who protects her. They love it.

If we stay together, we can break up and hate each other, and I don't want to lose a person like you, so it's better to break up now

Another upgrade, this time banal: "Let's remain friends." The difference is that you describe the prospect of friendship, which, by the way, may never come true, you both know that. But you give her nice words that will be her soft pillow. The standard expression of care in the form of “I don’t want to lose a person like you” works very well for her social memory, laid down by many generations, as well as films about love, songs and poems. And again - you are a hero, you see the danger and prevent it. In general, he deserves an applause!

I'm sorry, I've changed. I realized that relationships are not for me. I'm drawn to other girls, and I don't want to spoil your life with cheating

"Oh, you're so caring, stop!" - this is not what you will hear from her after this phrase, but still, you declare that you are frank and honest, which in itself is a manifestation of care and respect towards her. You are not to blame, you are a free man and live as you wish. If you want others, you have the right.

There is no universal magic phrase that makes you fall out of love painlessly. A girl is a living person with her emotions, we can only soften and shorten her suffering in time.

What flour is hard to say -
We broke up yesterday.
I'm ready to take out my soul, but loving,
I feel like I wasted yesterday.
Let me go, forgive me, take me again
I love you, I feel bad without you.

Having parted with my beloved girl,
We understand how evil the world is
When you can't even go back
And believe that your moment has come.

How you want to be there sometimes.
Sometimes they are not related.
Separation cold leaf fall ...
Let them turn into shaky dust!

"Farewell to Eden" appeared as. As his girlfriend Rina Lazar worries about her marriage proposal in New York, Pete Decker of the Los Angeles Police Department discovers a two-year-old child by the side of the road. He is unharmed, but his pajamas are bloody and appear to be completely broken. Deker takes care of him and goes on a frantic search for his parents. When Rina returns from New York, he is already in the middle of a haircut. For now, events have come to fruition - Decker is confronted in his investigation of a brutal quadruple murder.

Believe, love and hope
Honey, not for us.
Not everything will change for us,
And our life is not for an hour.

You will meet your happiness
Maybe it's waiting for me
Understand that with one participation
Love will not come to us with you.

You are leaving me again
Which once a month.
I'm used to this
And I managed to notice:

What do you still love, and forgive,
When I come back to you.
In the meantime, walk, baby, -
Unwind in silence.

And everything seems to indicate that he is on the path of a deadly blood feud. During the course of the first book, For Your Soul Be Clean, the two learn to know and love each other while investigating at a Jewish college. The Song of Death group then shows problems of approach, especially due to Rinas' religiosity and Decker's approach to the Jewish faith.

The third volume, Farewell to Eden, is again structured in several layers. During a control pass through the new night settlement, Decker finds small child, who is unharmed, but whose pajamas are completely smeared with human blood. No one in the village knows about the two-year-old girl. Due to the fact that the child has many bee sting marks, the tracks lead to a nearby valley where many beekeepers live and which, although very close to Los Angeles, still looks like the deepest province, with all prejudices against colored people. people, Rumors and gossip and distrust of strangers.

I'll finish the job, I'll come back
With a bouquet of red roses
kiss, hug
That's the whole question!

You are leaving forever.
But is it fair
What fate separates us
After all, they used to live so happily.

I won't be able to forget
The time that we were together.
And I can't stop loving you
At least twenty years will pass, at least two hundred.

I will remember you
Only my memory remains.
And in the heart of the pain does not relieve -
So quickly happiness was lost.

There, Decker and his partner Marge find four bodies in the orphanage. In another plot, an old military comrade asks Deker for help because he was arrested for brutal rape. And Rina Lazar, who went to see relatives at the end of Volume 2 in New York so that they can understand their feelings, comes to visit during all these events and wants to tell Dekker something important.

The investigations into the little girl and the corpses found in the episode have everything a good thriller needs: an unpredictable plot with some surprises, many possible suspects, and the appropriate momentum that leads to the completion of the reading can stop.

It hurts to admit
That now I live alone.
What separated us from you
The vice of Russia is alcohol!
I understand it's my fault
And I plead guilty
I drank, I smoked, I was wrong
When he wanted to start a family.
Now I understand what's ahead
You have to drop everything!
Your vices, and only then
Go ahead where you and me!
Now you're gone and I'm back
I remember my vice.
There is no family anymore, I'm talking about everything .. al,
And only now I realized.
That you're right, gone into the night
She said: change you!
Fix the blame and don't be sorry
That for so many years you were a nobody.
Now there is an incentive to start everything:
Eradicate sadness in the soul,
Pass the barriers, and then
Stay with you forever!

You are the most kind, beautiful and charming girl! I'm sorry

Embedded in this story is a thriller - the alleged rape of Decker's comrades, which, in true sense and in the nature of the investigation, is the story of the crime, but rather serves to bring Decker's past, in which it appears to be a mystery, into play. As with the previous two works, the second cornerstone of the book is the development of the relationship between Decker and Lazarus. And this is not just a "normal" love story, but because Rina Lazar is a jealous girl and an educated Decker Christian, but, as in the course of these books, by birth, in fact, a Jew also comes out.

Goodbye, love, goodbye, goodbye.
Do not be sad, my love, I will certainly return.
You are so beautiful on this cloudy evening.
Half-asleep lanterns pour habitual sadness.

Goodbye darling, goodbye darling
We will meet again, wait and remember me.
Don't be sad, my love, because I'm leaving.
I'm leaving, my love, keeping the memory in my heart.

The whole problematic of this approach to the Jewish religion, all its traditions and rules, and embedding in modern American life is, in my opinion, one of the great advantages that distinguishes this series of novels from other thrillers. But it still remains a crime thriller and does not mutate into the theory of religion.

This is especially noticeable in the drawing by Peter Decker. In Farewell to Eden, after a brooding, almost dubious stage in the predecessor book, a man experiences a critical engagement with his past. Although there are doubts, but this figure is still solidifying and confident. That this, of course, also leads to conflicts in the relationship is obvious.

I'm breaking up with you, my dear,
I don't even know when.
And I'll see you in a year, maybe
Or maybe even two.

I'm breaking up with you, my dear,
And how can I live without you?
I left my heart with you
When I return, you will return then!

It is not easy, sometimes, parting is given,
After all, once there was a first recognition,
The joy of meetings and bright follies,
The feelings were strong and sincere.

But all the people and their motives are presented in great detail and clearly. important topic in relation to the series of novels is the independence of individual volumes from each other. It is not true that the book could not understand the book without the knowledge of its predecessors. For this, the relevant information has already been cleverly placed. All in all, for those who love this exciting and addictive, there's great reading pleasure to be had, and don't shy away from a little pinch of thought. If you start with these books, it will be difficult to get rid of them.

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Help other readers by clicking on the thermometer to comment on this book and rate the thriller. And please don't take the pressure off other readers by betraying the plot or the resolution. Thank you! Your comment on parting with Eden. It is often difficult to know when and how to say goodbye, even in informal situations. By learning to say goodbye eloquently, tactfully, and appropriately, you will be able to maintain relationships with others and show others that you care about them.

But over time we got tired
The bitterness of disappointment was known.
Dear, I wish you strength and love,
And you will certainly find your happiness.

I break up with you
I don't want to at all.
And obey
A little forced.

If the meeting is close -
This is good.
Your gaze, softly clean,
I wear with soul.

Teddy bear is back in your hands -
This is my heartfelt gift from me.
You hug him, remember me,
Do not grieve, my love, I will return to you one of these days.

Goodbye in the short term

When you find yourself at any type of party or gathering, or even in a personal conversation, it can be hard to get away from it.

• Know when to leave.
• It will be easier to save time and see if the crowd will decrease.
• If there are barely more than half of the people, this is probably the right time to go out.

Observe body language. It's bad to stay longer than you like, but it can be hard to tell. People don't like to tell others that they would like them to leave now, so you need to try and observe the signals they are sending you.

Poems to say goodbye to your girlfriend

You can talk about love every day, but not find important words at the time of parting. Before you tell a girl about the end of a relationship, you need to think through everything well. Do not ignore or blame the person who has been around for a while. A man always positions himself as a defender and a stronger sex, so at such a moment it is better to just tell the truth without leaving the conversation. Relationships need to end once, so that in the future the girl can build new ones, so all words must be sincere, but the last. Do not feel sorry for the girl or persuade. At such a moment, it is better to remember all the good and bright things that connected two people.

If the party organizer starts cleaning up or leaves the conversation, gather your friends or your belongings and leave. If someone starts looking at the clock or if he looks at it, it is also definitely the moment to leave. Agree to see you again. If you haven't made plans yet, take the opportunity to do so.

Even if you say you'll see soon, you're suggesting a desire to see that person again. Plan to see you again for lunch or coffee later in the week if he says goodbye easier, but don't promise to do something you don't want to do, you can just leave. Tell me the truth. Maybe it's tempting to find a good excuse when you're ready to leave. If you want to leave, just say, "I'm going now, we'll see you later." There is no need to make it more complicated than that. If you want to leave a conversation you're in, just say we'll talk later.

You're leaving, I'm very sad
And my heart was empty
Seems like the earth is spinning slower
Because you are not around.
Somehow it all went by so fast.
We did not have time to enjoy each other,
Our feelings failed the test
That's the end of it all - parting.

Goodbye in the long run

If someone you know is about to go abroad for a few years or is preparing to go to university, it can be a busy time and when they are preparing the trip. Likewise, you should prioritize some goodbyes if you're leaving. Don't plan to see people you don't care about by forgetting to say goodbye to your sister. Select a good place, such as dinner, a walk in your favorite neighborhood, or a moment you've always enjoyed, such as watching a game on TV. Take a moment of the right length to discuss before you leave. . Tell us about the good times you spent together.

That it all happened like this, I'm sorry
The heart covered sadness with a veil,
The sun does not give joy rays,
A big void in my soul.
Foolishly, we broke up with you,
Since then I have lost sleep, peace,
To you, my love, goodbye,
I send my most tender wishes.

It's all my fault, of course,
And nothing to do with fate
It just didn't work out, it happens
And now the heart is aching and suffering.
You, my love, forgive me
And don't hold a grudge against me
May good luck await you ahead
I wish you to find happiness.

Remember funny stories and happy times - take a step back in the past: everything you did, what happened when you were friends, moments together, maybe even how you met each other. If it's a trip he doesn't really appreciate, don't spend all your time asking him about the trip, if he's excited about the trip, don't spend all your time giving him a roar, reminding him how much he'll miss everyone If your friend jealous of you new job in the Caribbean, don't spend all your time bragging about it.

• Don't start saying goodbye as soon as you enter the room.
• Assess the attitude of the other to his departure or yours.

Be open and friendly.

You, my love, do not be offended by me,
And please try to understand me
I don't deserve you, understand
Do not torment me, and calmly let go.
I understand that I hurt you.
I am very sad to part with you,
You will meet true love
And happiness will come to you again.

I did not think, did not guess, did not even expect
What lost you so quickly
Cooled our feelings with you
You say that you have become a complete stranger.
Everything happens in life
I don't hold a grudge against you
It's a pity, of course, but I let you go,
Even though I still love you dearly.

If you can't forgive me and make me happy

It is important to establish the state of your relationship. If you'd like to keep in touch, let him know. Exchange your email addresses, phone numbers and contact information. It can be reassuring to ask for an email address or phone number so you can chat again, but stay honest. If you do not intend to stay in touch, do not ask for contact information, your friend may ask questions about your sincerity and make sure your family members know where you are going What you do and what you know about them It is important not to give everyone the impression that you are leaving or disappearing. When it's time to leave, keep the moment short and sincere.

You were my love and desire,
I remember our meetings again and again,
For some reason, we parted strangely,
Has love died in our hearts?
I will have a sad evening without you
I without you and the day will be dreary,
I will remember your hair and shoulders
I will tell everyone: “Appreciate love, people!”

It's so hard for me to say goodbye to my beloved,
What am I going to do tonight?
Night Express. She will go far
I'll be alone without her now.
Although it will be a long return,
I keep your image and remember again
The same gentle, long-awaited look,
The look that is called "love".

Most people don't like goodbye, but you should make your goodbye personal. If you have difficult feelings to express, consider putting them in a letter so that the other person can read it later. When speaking face to face, keep the conversation light and funny. Take the other in your arms, say what you say and wish him a good trip, don't make this moment too long.

Know that I love you and will always love you! Forgive me if you can

If you are gone for a long time, and if you cannot take all your things with you, you can show your kindness by pooling your friendship by giving away what is yours. Give your old guitar to other members of your band, or give your brother a book that has some meaning for you to remember. Stay in touch. Let everything return to normal. A friend who moves to university will make new friends and it's unlikely that you will continue to call you every week. You should never put off visiting a loved one in the hospital, and you should not wait last day to visit a friend who is going abroad for good. Don't miss the opportunity to say goodbye and make it more pleasant at the last moment, it can be scary to die alone in the hospital. Stay with him and support him. Do what you think is right. We often get the impression that death or goodbye forever should be a dark or sad moment, follow in the footsteps of the person who is leaving, your role should be there for her and comfort her in moments when she needs it. If she seems to want to laugh or, if it seems natural, then laugh. Tell the truth, selectively. It's hard to know what level of honesty you should take with a dying person. If you visit your ex-spouse or distant family member, it can create a lot of tension and difficult emotions can arise. accumulate. The hospital does not seem perfect place to say what's in your heart and reproach your father for not being more real. If you feel that the truth is hurting a dying person, keep that in mind and change the subject, you can tell her that she doesn't need to worry about you today and change the subject. Maybe it's tempting to want to be overly optimistic, saying no, there's still hope, don't give up if, for example, he tells you he's going to die. spread over a subject none of you are sure about.

• Keep realistic expectations for your future posts.
• Say goodbye.
• Be in the room and tell him what to say.
• Spend as much time as you can with your loved ones.

Keep talking.

I met you, you opened the world of love to me,
Now I can't hug you
Fate separated us so suddenly
And I'm alone, I can only wait.
The wind is raging outside the window, and the city is sleeping,
And I write poems to you, I beg your pardon,
Near the bed is your portrait,
Come to me, let there be a return.

Living without love is so hard in the world
So please always be with me
They quarreled so stupidly, like children,
And day and night before the eyes of your image.
Check feelings so that we stay apart,
I don't see other girls around me
The day will come when we will close our hands again,
I love you so much, I just love you.

We broke up, I so want you to come back,
Was so heavy last time dialect,
She entered our yard, smiled at me again,
To forget our strife forever.
I'm sorry, maybe I was sharp
I'm sorry, maybe I didn't love that much
To leave forever, you need a good reason,
I remember every look of yours, I have not forgotten the meeting.

Burned the last bridges
And we lost the key to feelings,
We were so good with you
We did not expect such an ending.
Well, well, I don't hold a grudge against you,
Apparently it was fate
To you, my love, I only wish you happiness,
And, therefore, without arguing, I let go.

I have a reason to be sad
Today I part with my beloved,
Not for a while, but forever
So fate decreed.
Something I didn't see
Failed to convince you
For two, you decided everything yourself,
Well, well, I wish you happiness and good.

I thought our happiness would be forever
'Cause it all started so well
You were just heartless
And here is the result - we broke up.

After all, you won’t be forced to be nice,
I will erase everything from my heart, I will forgive,
Maybe you'll be happy with someone else.

How well it all started with you,
It seemed that our happiness would have no end,
But, today we broke up with you,
So fate decreed.
I let you go without resentment
I always wish to be happy
Remember, at least sometimes me,
After all, nothing can be erased from memory.

Darling, I was wrong
That in our feelings gave you many rights,
Fulfilled all your desires
I thought that you were a gift of my destiny.
You leave, I don't hold you
I will let go without resentment and reproaches,
I just wish you goodbye,
Let bitterness not leave parting.

Drumming rain on the glass
That I lost my girlfriend
My soul is sad and crying
But nothing can be returned.
I don't want to but I let you go
How I will continue to live, I do not know
You were the light in the window for me,
I say goodbye to you, love.

I'm not having fun today
Absolutely no mood
From pain, the heart aches and screams,
The soul cries and hurts.
I'm not offended by you, my love,
I'll try to erase from memory
You decided to leave on your own
And, not at all, and fate.

I loved you so devotedly, so tenderly
I thought our happiness would be serene,
You gave me hope and dreams
I was ready to give my life for you.
I don't hold a grudge against you, my love,
I blame myself for everything that happened
I let you go, love
May everything be great for you.

We part with you, I'm sad,
And my heart is empty - empty
Cooled our feelings quickly
And love is gone.
I release you from me
And I only wish you happiness
I say goodbye to you, love
And I won't be offended, I promise.

It seems to me that all this is not happening to us,
Everything is like a bad dream
Love leaves us without looking back,
And return it, what is the reason?
Forgive me and I will forgive you
We part like ships in the sea,
I'm sad about the love that's gone
May happiness await you ahead.

Sad day, like a farewell waltz
In memories he circles us
After all, it was good with you,
Why did it all go by so fast.
We haven't loved you yet
We didn’t agree on tenderness for each other,
But the feelings are frozen, do not melt,
I wish you not to miss your happiness.

Relationships are a long and difficult period during which two different personalities come together. Sometimes, it is difficult to find a common language with ourselves, what can we say about the people around us. No wonder that happy couples, exactly like family unions, not so much as we would like.

Differences of opinion, fading of feelings and loss of interest are the unpleasant side of relationships. In such a case, their break is simply the only right exit, resort to which we are forced by unfolding circumstances.

How to break up with a girl?

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There is a thin, invisible line in breaking up a relationship. A convincing statement of facts that allows you to stop communication once and for all, doing it as smoothly as possible and without unnecessary scandals. The other side, the exact opposite phenomenon - insecurity and cowardice, the fear of offending a girl and admitting that there is no more love between you and cannot be.

To be able to choose the right words, and knowing your chosen one, it is not difficult to do this, the main thing is to calm your ardent disposition without saying unnecessary and inappropriate remarks. You part, and there is no more need to delve into each other. The honesty and openness of your explanations should finally put everything in its place, leaving no questions.

In the case of shyness and indistinctness, it is very easy to think that your decision is a stupid mistake. Your girlfriend will calm you down, trying to reason and force you to abandon your intentions.

In the breakup of relations, exactly as in their creation, one cannot hesitate and mumble. If at the beginning, you can simply miss the chance to meet the lady you like, then at the stage of ending the relationship, you will torture yourself, wasting time and your own courage on something that no longer brings pleasure.

How to leave by SMS?

Modern society is saturated with threads of electronic social networks, mobile phones and communication at any distance is not a problem. Saving time, accessibility and convenience of network correspondence sometimes surpass real, live communication. The contactless exchange of information facilitates many tasks that previously required personal presence, but now only the Internet.

The easiest, but not always effective method, since conversations of similar significance are decided directly. If you have known each other recently and have not yet had much time to get used to each other, then there will be no problems, but in the eyes of a girl you will seem like a coward.

Write one, large, comprehensive and competent message. Free from grammatical errors, verbal inaccuracies and omissions. After reading this, the girl should not have any questions, everything becomes crystal clear.

It will not work to change the sent message, it will not work to restore the old feelings, therefore, carefully select the words and calculate possible questions, answering them in advance. Brevity is the sister of talent - it does not work here, accuracy and clarity are what you need.

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How to stay friends after a breakup

Ending a relationship is always a difficult and difficult process for both parties. There are several ways to properly break up with a girl who loves you, most painlessly and peacefully, and at the same time, try to remain good friends.

Honesty, calmness and straightforwardness

Choose the most optimal place, which is associated with a minimum of your common memories. Speak, looking into your eyes, everything is in your heart. Most importantly, do not talk insensitively, as if the past means nothing to you. Pay your respects to the time well spent together, but let them know that you don't need it anymore.

No revenge

At the end of your conversation and after a certain time, do not try to communicate that now that you are free from each other, you love or meet someone from your mutual acquaintances. Do not try to anger or cause envy, in such a stupid and children's lesson there is nothing beautiful.

Leaving a girl is not difficult, the real art is to remain friends after parting, and envy and anger are not the best helpers in this.

Don't lie about your ex

In the circle of friends and acquaintances, you should not brazenly exaggerate the shortcomings of the former and your virtues, her weaknesses and inclinations, which led to your leaving her. Sooner or later, but the words spoken will reach the ears of the former, and you will definitely never be able to be friends. Besides, a real man will not report how bad or weak-willed the woman he came across, and even more so, would not make her an object of ridicule. Do not forget that when you condemn your ex, you equally condemn yourself, since no one forgot your closeness.

steadfastness

As already mentioned, the firmness of intentions speaks of their seriousness and the steadfastness of you. This is a well-thought-out solution that does not require additions and clarifications. Just do it the way you planned it. At best, you will give the impression of a determined and self-confident guy, after which, the girl herself will not want to leave your life, and will offer friendship.

No deception

False hopes and promises for a possible meeting, that this is a temporary separation and you need to think it over well - everything is not what you wanted. It is worth giving such false hope, as everything will only get worse, if not for you, then for the girl who is constantly waiting for your call to change her mind, it will definitely hurt.

To all the guys who can’t honestly admit to being loved, albeit in the past, that nothing else binds you, I can advise you to put yourself in her place. Understand that the bitter truth will be a thousand times more pleasant than the sweet lie that gives hope for the impossible.

What should not be done?

No matter what to offend a girl - just disappear from her life, in no case, it is impossible. This is exactly what brings the maximum mental suffering. Do not be rude, insensitive and selfish. Nevertheless, it was you who fell out of love with her, and she, perhaps, also has feelings for you. Words should be firm and clear, but not cold. The coldness you feel towards her offends no less than rudeness.

If you want to remain friends, you should not plan friendly meetings for the first time, as they will not allow the remnants of feelings to go out, it is especially difficult for girls to experience such events - they need to put up with it, it’s better not to see each other for a week and not speak at all.

Ignoring a girl so that she would leave you herself is also not the best way out. Not only is this humiliating, but it will take some time. To provoke a scandal, in order to break here and now, on a rude note, while you hate each other, is too cruel a way. A strongly loving lady is able to endure this, and you will find yourself in an extremely stupid position. Besides, I am silent about how much suffering it can bring her.

Undisguised disrespect, insult and reproach is a vile and low way. To offend someone else's self-respect, the last thing an adult, intelligent person would resort to.

In a relationship, love alone is not enough. If you want to leave a girl, you need to do it as soon as possible. Do not try to wait for an opportunity and a comfortable date, such a separation drags on for a long time, causing discomfort.

How nice to break up with a girl?

In a gentlemanly way, it will be to prepare the girl for the upcoming important conversation. About a few days in advance, warn her about the need for your conversation. Sudden and abrupt cessation of communication will always cause more pain and inconvenience. On certain dates in the year that are of great importance, it is better to wait and not rush things. Dump a girl on her birthday or New Year- Not funny joke but a gross insult to her as a person. Whatever the holiday, it is still a holiday, and if it is of interest to her, then this also applies to you.

It is better to choose a place that is crowded and bright, to maintain the mood after the news. It is desirable that the meeting takes place in a neutral institution and does not cause feelings for your person. The surrounding people will not allow the girl to lose her face, fall into tears or rage, they are like a deterrent not only from you, but also from herself. Very often, girls regret that they show guys their weakness, vulnerability and dependence on them.

Breakup scene from the movie Social network”

Let her think that the problem is with you, not with her, even if it is not. The main thing for you is to soften the blow, and not try to change and rebuild her character. Compliment her, speak beautifully and pleasantly, stay on top at any time. Explain your departure to her by the fact that you are tired of relationships, you want a break and calm, bachelor life. Or, alternatively, convince her that you are absolutely not what she needs. That your love, attention, care - all this is only temporary, and you are not ready for permanent feelings and relationships.

Leaving a girl is much more difficult than starting a relationship. To inflict pain of separation is easier than the joy of acquaintance.

When should you end a relationship?

If your feelings begin to weaken, and your passion disappears somewhere, it's time to think about continuing such a relationship. In the reasons for parting lies a pointer to all those flaws and shortcomings that lead to unhappiness in a life together. Every mistake should make you stronger and smarter, and if you don’t understand such life lessons, then there is a risk that you will never experience long-term and good relationships.

It is better to say that you were wrong about her, or overestimated your own passions, than to endure and drag along a relationship that is no longer worth anything. Admitting your mistakes in time and accepting them is a trait of strong people. The weak will always try to justify their failures or stupidly mistake them for success. In your decision to part, you need to be more than resolute and adamant.

When constant misunderstandings, quarrels and elementary fatigue from each other already cross all boundaries - this is the time to break something old in order to create a new one. Such moments can happen rarely and quickly be forgotten, but their appearance in general is already a guide to the weakness and fragility of such communication. The situation, over time, only worsens, does not give hope, and no one asks for hope anymore. Such a couple needs only one thing - to find replacements for each other.

No matter how trite it may sound, but youth is not eternal, and with age, finding a soul mate will be much more difficult. Relationships in youth allow you to develop the necessary skills and inclinations, allowing you to more easily cope with the difficulties of real family life in the future.

First love and first date - after such passed stages of life, it is not difficult to replace changes in a person's character. Such necessary and strong phenomena create in you that part of the personality responsible for the care and well-being of your beloved. Happiness does not happen without unhappiness, only in this way, it is truly appreciated.

What to say to a girl when breaking up?

Start a conversation with gratitude for a good time and end it with a reason to leave. Warm memories and moments of happiness remain in the memory, not going anywhere, but depreciating and becoming in line with the usual, routine considerations. Such past events deserve at least to be remembered, and the girl who gave them to you - when she was your source of happiness.

Ending a relationship doesn't have to be a scary, hard, sad day. This is just the time when some old cycle, which has not been bearing fruit for a long time, ends. If it is good to see and understand all the resulting versatility, disinterest and indifference, the need to stop this becomes tangible. Couples that parted over trifles and frivolous, quite excusable reasons were just not ready for their partner, not knowing what he was like inside himself. It is completely different when love in the heart is kept to the last, forgiving and ignoring things that require consideration.

If a girl still loves you, trying to somehow stay close, you should be as restrained as possible, not allowing you to exaggerate the real reason for leaving, and grateful - reminding her of all the charm of the feelings that once arose, but already died. Sometimes separation is capable of more than failed love.

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My sunshine, I know we will never see each other again, but please read this letter to you. I am sorry that I deceived your hopes, and I would do everything to take away your pain. I feel it every morning and every night. I dream of your tears, and the guilt does not leave me. You are the best of the girls, and I will never forget your gentle voice, your touching tenderness and your ardent love. Honey, I want you to know that I was sincere with you and believed sacredly that we would always be together. Fate decreed otherwise, forgive me ...

My girl, I know that you love me selflessly, but I can’t change anything. For this reason, I feel miserable, insignificant and helpless. I can’t imagine what will happen to us now, and how we can come to terms with the pain of Life. parting without you is devoid of everything - the meaning around reminds us of us: acquaintance, first dance, first date, first kiss ...

my lovely woman.

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And the lines that you will understand me
I wrote this verse just for you
you cursed me,
But I'm used to paying for everything.
And yet it was the right decision.
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love to know the price of separation
To be from the excitement itself is not your own ..
When I see you I hear.
And hands in a dream your voice.
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Farewell letter to a loved one

Where is it all now? The usual SMS without a drop of suffering - "We need to leave!" That's all romance. But even in our time, there are still romantic men who, even at the last meeting before parting, can speak beautiful words. Or write farewell letters…. And let this letter come now by e-mail, but his words ... will surely make the heart of any girl beat faster, and tears will involuntarily well up in her eyes. So, what should it be like, a farewell letter to your beloved woman or girl?

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How little romance is left in our time in love. The Internet and the phone have completely replaced live communication when there are rose petals, glasses of red wine or champagne around. Now all this is displayed only on the monitor screen in the form of emoticons instead of a lively smile or an electronic painted bouquet instead of fresh flowers. And remember how many times in old novels, stories, films, the bitterness of parting with a loved one, farewell letters are shown.
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Farewell letter to a loved one at parting

Farewell letter to a loved one at parting

It doesn't matter what form you decide to put on your separation letter, what matters is the content. So where to start.

The betrayal of a loved one can extinguish faith in feelings and people for a long time.

1. Describe your feelings. Resentment, disappointment, pain. Everything you experience should be in this message. He betrayed you, and he needs to know how you feel. Otherwise, he will not learn a lesson from his act and will be sure that you calmly accepted his act.
2. No need to appeal to his conscience. Your letter is just a way to convey to a person information about the consequences of his act. Let him deal with his conscience himself, you only provide him with food for thought, and at the same time get rid of your own resentment: if you don’t tell a person directly, without concealment and hints, that he hurt you, this situation will torment you with incompleteness.
3. Put a point. In all senses. Let your relationship end there, you cross him out of your life and go your own way alone. A farewell letter does not imply a lengthy showdown.

Confess: You don't want to part with him at all, do you? You just do not have enough attention, and you decided in this way to attract him. Otherwise, it is impossible to explain the desire to say goodbye to the chosen one in verse. Or you are just looking for a strong source of emotions for inspiration.

In general, if you feel a thirst to rhyme, no rules, except for the rules of versification, apply here. If you want to say goodbye beautifully, hundreds of ready-made masterpieces are at your service, which are easy to find on the Internet. Alternatively, you can turn to a professional poet who will help you compose a touching farewell poem.

It is much easier to express your thoughts in prose, especially if you write a letter in your own words, and do not copy it from somewhere.

In this form, you can focus on the essence of the message, and not on the original rhyme for the word “love”. The main thing that is required of you is clarity of presentation and the ability to logically complete a sentence.

Let's be honest: making a guy cry with a farewell letter is problematic. In general, remember, have you seen your man cry? Therefore, only other girls who are in a similar situation can be moved by your message. But you can stir up the feelings of a man by observing three simple conditions.

• Be sincere. You can find an example of a letter on the Internet, but if it does not match your situation, then it will not evoke emotions. Forget about templates and beautiful proofread phrases, just write what you feel.
• Write simply. Ornate comparisons, complex sentences, abstruse words look unnatural and insincere. Unless, of course, you explain yourself in this way all the time. Already your man (albeit a former one) will definitely feel whether you are writing on your own or have used someone's hint.
• Don't blame. Any reproach will make a man bristle and close from your further words. In a farewell letter, admit that you did not find a common language and a way to save the relationship, but you do not need to find out who is to blame for their collapse. It is better to part with a pure soul and thoughts.

The essence of the letter changes dramatically from the one on whose initiative the separation occurred. If you are leaving, then explain to your man the reasons, do not make him suffer from the unknown. If he left you, express everything you think about this, especially if he did not bother to explain his act.

1. No need for regrets. All sorts of “if only” only poison the soul and show that you, knowing how to act, did not fight for your feelings. Better use this knowledge with another man to build a stronger relationship.
2. If you leave, leave. Do you really understand the meaning of the word "farewell"? After this message, you no longer hope for the revival of love and the continuation of relationships. Therefore, do not send a letter if you are not sure of your firmness: the word of a woman should be as weighty as that of men. At least for yourself.

What do you want to say ex boyfriend, who unexpectedly (well, or expected, which, in principle, is not very important) left you. You are upset, offended, angry, you want him to know about your emotions and understand how hard it is for you.

But in any case, you need to speak out so that you can let go of your emotions and gradually restore the stability of the state, and then start a new relationship.

A girl who did not wait for a guy from the army is a sore subject for many military personnel. Unfortunately, this happens: while the couple is nearby, feelings seem indestructible, but separation proves the opposite. How to write to a former loved one that you are not expecting him from the army.

• Write honestly. There is nothing worse than being sure that a loved one is faithful to you, and then finding out that he was deceiving you. You should not think that by hiding the disappearance of feelings from a guy, you will do a good deed. Especially if you have already found a replacement for him, and your mutual friends and acquaintances know about it.
• Don't expect forgiveness right away. You really hurt your boyfriend. In the army, partings are perceived especially painfully, so be prepared that the reaction will be far from benevolent. Accept that in fact you have become a traitor.

If you are the type of girl who is unable to simply end all relationships, despite the betrayal by a guy, a farewell letter will help you sort yourself out.

1. Don't ask for an explanation. You know, you can't tell your heart to love. If it so happened that your beloved preferred another to you, accept this fact without listening and demanding excuses from him. They won't make it any easier for you. In a letter, wish him happiness and forget it.
2. Don't ask or give a second chance. In a farewell letter, this is at least inappropriate. If you are ready to forgive betrayal, you should not pretend that you are leaving and wait for him to return you. You either make a point or you don't.

Why are you saying goodbye to your boyfriend? Did he leave you or do you just love him unrequitedly from a distance? However, this is not so important. In a farewell message to your loved one, you can write whatever you feel.

Perhaps this message will not be the end of your relationship, but the beginning?

The situation is standard, known to many girls: you are loved, but your heart does not respond to this feeling. And I don't want to offend good man, but cheating on it or ignoring it is even worse. The letter in this case will be the most sparing option: the unfortunate lover will be able to read it alone and comprehend every line.

1. Don't fool him. The famous phrase "Let's remain friends" will not work if you do not want to be friends with this person. It is better to write directly that his love puts you in an awkward position and causes a feeling of guilt for non-reciprocity.
2. Explain why you don't reciprocate. Perhaps it will be easier for a guy to survive the rejection if you tell him that you love skinny brunette auto mechanics, and he is a plump blond photographer.

If your chosen one is married, and you know that he won’t leave his family for you, it’s better to leave them, and take care of your personal life yourself. And as a symbol of a new stage in life, let a farewell letter to your married chosen one come forward.

The main condition: the letter should not catch the eye of your ex-lover's wife. Therefore, think about how to convey a message to him, and then boldly burn the bridges.

Just keep in mind that this letter is not for him, but for you. The offense inflicted will burn and hurt, so it is better to get rid of it immediately. Of course, it’s better to talk in person, but sometimes it’s insanely hard to tell the person you have feelings for about your offense. And paper, as you know, will endure everything. And yes, it's much easier to say goodbye.

Write the way you would like to say - without hiding a single emotion, talking about how hurt you were by him and his words or actions. This is not a letter of complaint, but simply an opportunity to get rid of the negativity, as well as to explain to the offender that he was wrong.

It is not necessary to write long letters to say goodbye to a person. You can use the modern way and send SMS to your ex-lover. We will not go into the details of your breakup, just be glad that you do not have to see the person with whom fate divorced you.

After all, these are your feelings, can't you put them in a couple of sentences? Moreover, borrowed thoughts are very easy to recognize: as a rule, they are stereotyped and grandiloquent.

Remember that SMS is a short message, so try to be concise. If they abandoned you, say that you forgive and let go. If you are the initiator of the breakup, ask for forgiveness and wish happiness with another girl. Believe me, this is the essence, and when parting, you don’t need more, otherwise it can turn into a base soap opera.

This, of course, is not about grammatical errors, although their absence speaks in your favor. But even a farewell letter can become not a point in a relationship, but a meaningless ellipsis. To prevent this from happening, keep a few things in mind.

• Don't write a letter if it's better to talk. Still, it is difficult to convey all the intonations and nuances in writing. It may happen that a man will see in your message not at all the meaning that you put into it. If you want to sort things out once and for all, do it in person.
• Don't wait for an answer to a farewell letter. The point is to end the relationship. If you want to use it to attract the attention of a man, to interest him, to show that you are offended - do not rely on the result. Men think straight, and not every woman will understand such a veiled hint.
• Don't threaten or blackmail. No need to turn the letter literally into a farewell message. Sending a guy notes in which you threaten to do something to yourself because of him is mean and pathetic of you.

Writing a farewell letter is akin to keeping a diary: it allows you to speak out, ask the right questions and get answers, it’s easier to get over a breakup.

You need to work through your problem.

• In a letter, address the guy. Imagine that you are talking to him, ask questions, answer on his behalf. Perhaps, in the process of writing a message, you will not only calm down, but also understand the reasons for what happened.
• Try writing yourself a letter on his behalf. This technique also allows you to forgive the person who offended you. And the ability to let go of resentment makes life much easier and more joyful.
• It is not necessary to send a letter. If you feel better when you put your thoughts on paper, stop there. And burn the paper or save it until the moment when you want to re-read the letter and laugh at your naivety.

A farewell letter to your beloved husband is one thing, but a letter to someone else's beloved husband is quite another. If you happened to find yourself in mistresses, but you decided to end this relationship and finally write a letter, be careful. Compose the message so that he does not think that you are trying to blackmail him with your feelings.

1. Explain why you decided to say goodbye. Very few women can be completely satisfied with the position of a mistress. Yes, you can be good together, but he goes to his wife, and you are left alone. He lives full life, even a little more than necessary, and you are deprived of constancy and a sense of stability. And in order not to put him before a choice, you decided to go your own way.
2. Don't blame him. If he did not leave his wife before the letter, then he is unlikely to do so after it either. So just say goodbye, but don't try to make him feel like the ultimate villain.

As a rule, relationships collapse from misunderstanding and inability to find a compromise in a couple. Who knows, perhaps your farewell letter to your loved one will give you another chance, of course, provided that there are still feelings between you. If you count on it, writing a letter will require maximum effort from you.

Remember that thoughts put into words take on a different meaning and can both improve life and poison it. So handle them carefully.

Make your farewell to the girl as romantic as possible. If you are leaving by plane, arrange a romantic evening with candles in the airport cafe, if by train - in the station restaurant. Let the girl’s place of farewell be associated with something pleasant, not sad. During dinner, try not to talk about your separation. Tell her more about how much you love her, ask her to dance.

Develop a conversation about what you will do when you are together again. Don't forget the flowers. Before leaving, you can discreetly put a piece of paper with a love message in the girl's bag. For example, it can be such words: “Beloved, (name of the girl). As soon as I was away from you, I realized even more how much I love you. I will not be sad, on the contrary, I want to smile with happiness, because I have you, I am very lucky. You are the most beautiful, faithful, kind, desirable, sympathetic, beloved, sweet, tender (choose one of these words). I love you!" The main thing is that the lines come from the heart. If you do not have enough imagination to write a love letter to your soul mate, you can simply quote the poems of poets, she will undoubtedly like this option. After all, the main thing is your attention to it. She will appreciate it above all else.

What to say to a girl when breaking up

I say goodbye because the night has passed.

You gave the dark time of the day to one beauty, but you do not plan to stay with her. I don't care why - there can be many reasons. It may not be known at all whether the girl herself plans to continue communicating with you, but in the morning there is little time to find out all this, and there is no need. Say that this morning was unforgettable, this dawn is the best end to the night. And you shouldn’t say goodbye words, don’t spoil the atmosphere.

Goodbye. I do not want to say a lot of unnecessary words, they will not make it easier for anyone anyway. Just know that you will forever remain that special person who managed to touch the most intimate - my soul. Do I love you? I will answer, without hesitation for a minute, that yes, and even very much so. But the problem is that my love is not enough to save our relationship. It always seemed to me that two people should fight for the fortress of the union, but, apparently, the opinion turned out to be erroneous. Remember, all the best is connected exclusively with you, and if you suddenly find yourself in trouble, I will undoubtedly come to the rescue. Only as a good friend, just an acquaintance, but no more. You are in my heart forever, and this is perhaps the saddest thing. After all, I can’t love anyone like you. I sincerely believe that everything will be fine with you, that you will find your happiness. I'm sorry that everything turned out so that mutual dreams remained the sweet dreams of those who were once a single whole.

It is sad to realize that we have to part. But, I hope that this will not lead us to negativity and resentment. May each of us find our own happiness, may we be lucky on the path of life. All the best to you.

I don’t know how I can survive without you all these days, because today I release part of my soul with you. Take care of her, I won't be able to exist without her in this dull and uninteresting world. I enjoy you, inspire and admire you. Come soon, because without you everything fades and loses its colors.

I vaguely imagine all this time that I will have to spend without you, because you are my long-awaited half, which I have been looking for for so long. My joy, idolized, beloved, come back quickly. Without you, all life will fade away, and all days will become completely uninteresting and faded. You are the reason for my smile, which, unfortunately, I have to let go, at least for a short while. I look forward to our next meeting with great impatience.

I don't want to... I'm leaving... I'm sorry, I can't do it anymore... I'll leave, close the door behind me and call another one now... forget me and I'll definitely remember you forever... I can't understand you what you need from me ... and recently I realized you didn’t need me, you really need me ... I’m sorry for not giving ... because I didn’t love you ... we just suffered loving .. keeping love not for yourself... I'm sorry, I'm no longer yours...

The time of parting has come, my heart is somehow sad and empty. But, we will cope with all the troubles, with all the problems, thoughts and time barriers. The main thing is to believe in the best, and everything will be fine with us.

From today, it's time for me to stop, because you won't be around. I understand, work, circumstances, affairs, but with your departure, it’s as if a part of me is also leaving. I know it won't be long. Time will pass, and you will return to me, but until that moment, I will count the minutes, dreaming about the upcoming meeting. I will think about you constantly, returning to you in my thoughts and dreams. I will ask heaven and all kinds of saints to take care of you and return you to me safe and sound. You are my happiness, and as you know, it is impossible for a person to live without happiness. Come back to me as soon as possible, I'm waiting with great impatience!

Today will be extremely sad, and all because today I say goodbye to you. Let not for long, just for a couple of days, but this time for me will seem like an eternity. Please come back as soon as possible, because without you all life is messed up. My day starts with your smile and ends with your kiss. Don't deprive me of this for too long. I will unthinkably miss you the love of my life.

My beloved person, I am very sorry, but it so happened that we have to part. May your heart not cry, may your soul not be sad, may everything in your life turn out wonderfully, may warm and good relations remain between us.

"I'll be on your ex" list

Don't talk to the future
About who you had in the past.
Don't call me, be quiet
Even though I know it will be difficult.

It's hard for me to think now
I'll be on your ex list
And you are on my to-do list
For those who love, but for those who have cooled down.

"Don't Forget About Each Other"

What a pity to see each other, perhaps
Fate will never let us
But let's forget about each other
She will never be forced...

"Don't Judge Our Past Strictly"

Reluctantly, but nevertheless we admit:
Our relationship is stagnant.
So come on, do not scold fate,
Let's break up with you forever!

Do not judge our past strictly,
Try to find happiness!
It's good that the wrong way
Didn't get far!

"Goodbye!"

Goodbye! How sad is that word.
Who just invented it?!
For the language it is simple,
Well, what about the heart?

"The soul is torn to shreds by separation"

Separation tears the soul to shreds,
The heart cries alone.
Honey, I miss you very much -
It could not have been otherwise.

Very hard separation
I want to hug you.
Trust in your own hands
Stay together forever.

"I want to hurt you"

I want to hurt you.
I want to be empty and cruel
So that your icy blood
It looked like strawberry juice to me.

I want to hurt you.
I want merciless revenge.
Shut up about your love.
We will never be together.

"Can I force myself?"

I don't know if I can make myself
To live the same as I lived, but already without you.
Don't wait, don't think, don't call,
Don't talk about your feelings.

Can I get used to, can I forget
Will I be able to love other women.
Let time heal all this sadness.
Feelings melted, and I'm very sorry.

"Farewell, my beloved!"

The wind blows the fallen leaves
And raindrops will fall on the palm!
Our meeting was still superfluous,
This sets the heart on fire!

No one will understand what happened suddenly to us,
We can no longer be with you!
In separation from you, we are not merged with hearts,
Farewell, my beloved, like an echo of the word!

"I loved you very much"

With you, my love
It's hard for me to part
I loved you so much
Even though it's hard for me to admit

But remember, don't forget
Words and promises
Wait for me and don't miss me
Accept my confession!

"I do not forgive betrayal!"

I call you my love
For the last, unpleasant time.
I do not forgive betrayal -
Change is tearing us apart.

Free like the wind in the field
Run where you wanted to run.
Not a very big grief -
Send you to hell.

"It could be such a fairy tale"

It could be a story like this:
I am a fairy, you are a handsome prince.
But the dream-coloring sheet is fading,
Now I don't know the boundaries

Sorrows, sadness of expectation:
And suddenly you still come ...
Only memories remain
About what a lie is.

"My eyes are now open"

My eyes are now open
And the love is gone.
How stupid to fall in love with you
That I was next to you.

I won't regret the past
I'm glad to break up with you.
Farewell, my dear, good,
Don't stand in the way of life.

"Once a close person"

With you, my beloved once,
Once a loved one
With whom I spent sunsets
And with whom I met the dawn,

It's very hard for me to leave
But love cannot be returned
And I wish you happiness
I wish you not to be sad.

"I can't forgive you for cheating"

I can't forgive you for cheating
From now on you belong to someone else!
You showed all our feelings the price,
Farewell, beloved, but already a stranger!

I will not find a place for offensive phrases,
It is busy with bitter annoyance!
Love will not converge with treason - closely,
Confusion lay on top of her!

"Our feelings have exhausted themselves"

Our feelings are exhausted
Or maybe they didn't exist at all?
And broken, what we dreamed of
And in the soul of sadness eternal gray.

No more will we hold hands
Everything, my love, we are at the end ...
We'll take over the void
For others, let us become a miracle of the heart!

"You left my planet"

You left my planet
Full of happiness and dreams!
Scorned by Juliet's hero
A feeling of gentle warmth!

Well, let, but now I
Absolutely nothing to lose!
Away with boredom and doubt
It's time to start life from scratch!

"A sad confession"

You read a sad confession
And now you will understand everything.
The time has come for parting -
So it is necessary, albeit sadly all the same.

Feelings warmed us hot,
But no more warmth to be found.
I'm really, dear, I'm sorry
That love is completely gone.

"I'm glad that I'm free"

I'm glad that I'm free
That the shackles of love are broken
It was hard for me to breathe with you, as if
I am a prisoner. But I'm reborn.

And if something's wrong, I'm sorry
But I think you're happy to part.
Remember only good moments
And let the spring garden bloom in your soul!

"You cheated on me"

You changed me. What did you hope for?
What would be better all on the side?
Oh, how easy it is for you to trust another!
But I don't care about that anymore.

Do you think you're so unique?
But I don't need a used girlfriend.
You do not ask for forgiveness, crazy,
After all, a wall has grown between us!

"Forgive me, I don't love anymore..."

Forgive me, I don't love anymore
I'm even happy and not at all sad ...
I'm leaving, I'm leaving forever
Forgive me, but the feelings are all gone!

You are my ex-lover
I loved you sincerely,
But all the words have already rang out,
We won't be with you anymore!

“The fire went out, feelings subsided ...”

The fire went out, feelings subsided,
Love has passed, and it's a pity.
There was some sadness in my heart
And sadness crept into my soul.

A spark of love no matter how hard you try
Now no longer resurrect.
Forever, my dear, say goodbye -
I can't love anymore.

"Love is gone and won't come back"

Love is gone and will never return
Believe me, I'm very sorry that this happened!
We were together, our hearts were happy
But our feelings, dear, did not work out in a fairy tale!

The soul will mysteriously pour out hope,
And I don't even seem to notice!
We will no longer make a double flight of souls,
I don't love you, I'm sorry, there will be no meeting!

"Love is gone, but I'm not sad"

Love is gone, but I'm not sad
Not a bit, not a bit sorry.
The two of us are lonely, empty,
And sadness crept into my soul.

Feelings do not bring me consolation,
And they suffer day by day.
Dear, goodbye. So it is necessary:
You are no longer my dream.

"It's so hard to say goodbye"

It's so hard to say goodbye.
Even harder to forgive.
Don't think, don't cry, don't get angry
And don't blame anyone.

Cover yourself with a blanket
Or just water the flowers.
It's so hard to forget.
Even harder to forget...
Finding no reciprocal warmth.
There is no love, there is a reason for sadness,
After all, you are no longer with me.

"You and I parted so hard"

You and I parted so hard
Both have sadness in their hearts.
And they seemed to be friends.
I say: as you wish, but it's a pity ...

It's a shame we didn't get to know each other well.
They didn't try to understand their feelings.
It is a pity that the evil worldly blizzard
Didn't let us start all over again.

"I say goodbye to you - flour"

I say goodbye to you - unspeakable torment,
It is not easy for me to endure your parting glance.
And where does separation come from in the world,
That they torment and hurt so deeply!

Call, write, quench the thirst of the heart,
With a kind and quiet word, drink like water.
To warm your soul from your warmth,
So that these long days are not tormented like that.

Farewell, let go! I love love
But you, alas, trampled it all!
This fairy tale will not be repeated again,
Another is waiting for you at the pier of love!

“It happens so, love passes ...”

It happens that love passes,
And together we can no longer be
Memories year after year
They won't turn their heads

There will be no "us" and common plans,
shared life paths,
And we'll be there again
On photos of friends!

"I won't see you soon"

I'm ready to howl like a seasoned wolf,
From the sadness that reigns in the soul.
I won't see you soon
And my heart aches from longing.

I miss you so much,
Separation every day I swear.
Darling, I dream about it
As I look into your eyes again.

"I don't want to be with you anymore"

Your love seemed tempting
I was ready to give everything for her.
But it turned out to be endless stress
Everything you could ever dream of.

What is this relationship called?
In which only quarrels, only pain?
No, not love, all this is humiliation.
I don't want to be with you anymore.

"I have to say goodbye"

I have to say goodbye
But I'm waiting for our meeting
My beloved, my happiness
Without you, I'm delirious!

Separation will fly by quickly
We will be together again
I see your clean look
How much we need each other!

"You recently cheated on me"

You recently cheated on me.
Don't save. Didn't appreciate it.
Didn't understand, couldn't understand
But my heart is trampled

Managed easily. Well, not me
And the Lord himself is your judge. We are not together now.
Is there any point in worrying?
Not the fate of your bride
It can be seen, my beloved, to become.

The old feelings are gone
You just killed them.
I wish myself happiness!
The world is full of other men.

"Love you forever killed"

Everything that was between us
She betrayed her by betrayal.
Love you forever killed
I cherished so much.

Farewell, and do not weep in vain,
Tears will not help grief.
Love started so well
It ended in terrible pain.

"Don't say I'm a scoundrel"

I can breathe easily again
'Cause I'm finally free
Love is gone. Everything is far.
Don't say that I'm a scoundrel

Let's understand each other, you and I
Be free and happy!
Yes, everything is gone, love has passed -
And with her scandals and sadness!
And secretly, but wildly jealous
To the one with whom you taste love!

"Minute of parting"

Minute of parting
Not always happy
And sad confession -
My love has gone

Don't cry and don't be sad
The paths diverge
And again the feeling of happiness
Waiting for you ahead!

Here comes the day of parting
Separation awaits us ahead
Here is my platform and the train is pulling up,
Landing is announced into the microphone ...
And I'm standing and I can't take a step,
I look into your loving eyes
In the arms of farewell I burn
You want to stay forever...
It happens, the result is sad
We live in different cities
I'm in Petersburg, you're in Smolensk,
And life will not change, we do not like.
I went into the car, the doors closed
And the train moved a little,
Couldn't hold on anymore
And sobbed like a child
Here is your image in the distance melted,
I can no longer see the station
I got up and whispered
Farewell beloved forever!!!

Well, we decided to say goodbye.
Our happy paradise has become a hell...
It's hard for me to communicate with you.
Forgive me for everything. Goodbye.
Farewell, be happy with another
For a long time everything is empty between us.
We swim separately and are silent
Like ice in the ocean.

What can I say to you when I say goodbye?
What was happy.
Behind the back did not fit
Two open wings.
What flew in the sky
And she didn't hide her face.
What is my high song
Didn't foresee the end.
Everything just goes somewhere...
And the crown of everything is longing.
It flew off and fell off.
Haven't cried yet.

The night comes and extinguishes the wind
Candle in chilled crystal
On an old desk
All I'm left with is ashes
Letters from the burnt one... in the mist

Dreams look through the gaps in the windows,
Pouring music a little audible,
Rain on warm gray roofs
Weave into the beads of silence.
And in the dark you can barely breathe...

And you're alone again in the night
In the stream of days you disappear
And again you are silent ... Tell me, you know
When it resounds in the fog
Beautiful voice... slip away

To dissolve into silence
Empty roads... forget the alarm
And a bird up, touch God,
And melt into the depths
Clear waters...your way

Leads you somewhere far away
Where in the grapes
Dreams are ripe... it's not too late
Hear the songs of birds
And fly away, rise to the stars...
And forget your sorrow...

Goodbye. I won't forget you

And all that is left behind.

And I wanted to love you alone ...

I want to say sorry to you
I just want to leave
You let me go, I'm sorry
I don't want to live like this anymore.
I loved you again
But you broke the thread of love
Now live without loving
And never remember.
Forget my number
And of course I will forget yours,
And let my dreams die
With a stupid word: I WILL NOT FORGET!
Those stars that shone for us
They'll all go out for sure.
And you, my dear, remember
About our happiness.
Why did you betray me like that
You hurt, you hurt my heart
But I will forgive you too
Find your happiness again!

What to do?
How to be?
I can not believe it,
I can't forgive.
Remember how we spent the night
I can't live without love anymore.
I can't understand
These stupid words
I can not love not my love.
I just don't know
How can I continue to live
Help me people to forget him.

Goodbye. I won't forget you
Although I don't know what lies ahead.
I loved you - I will remember it,
And all that is left behind.
I'm sorry, I did a vile act,
I just can't go on living like this.
But in this world you must be bold
And I wanted to love you alone ...
I didn't dare to confess
And tell me what I feel for you.
I'm tired of being so afraid of everything
It was so hard on my heart.
Please don't take me back.
How I loved - I will remember it.
Maybe I won't say a lot
Farewell, I won't forget you...

You…
You who left me alone
You who gave me so much pain
Now I give thanks
For honoring this share.
Thank you for the birth of love
Big as the world and as beautiful as dawn.
Thank you, my dear, for those days
When love seemed not in vain.
When dreams are like children's eyes
Between our hovered skies.
When we knew for sure - never,
There will be no estrangement between us.
And let the whole world rear up between us
Will rise. We were sure -
We will never be strangers
That you and I are already inseparable ...
But, our dawn has changed to sunset,
Fate scattered the cards otherwise,
And there is no turning back for us
And there is no common mooring to the shore.
And only love is immortal, like a soul
And the look will soften, and everything will take away resentment.
And this miracle in the heart forever
That's it, THANK YOU SO MUCH.
Thank you that, once, warming up,
The fire burned inside me left.
For having taught to love, in love
You didn't disappoint.
Thank you for the open new world
Thank you for the gift of weakness
For the woman that you discovered in me
And for the joy experienced in tears.
For all. For the memory of wonderful days.
They are now inseparable from me
Because I know how I can love
Because I know how I was loved ...

Farewell letter
My love,
Forgive me for not meeting
And now I'm not talking about feelings in my eyes,
Alone with you there is not enough strength for speech
And the courage to say I'm leaving.

Oh no you don't have to apologize
I should rather ask for forgiveness
Because I can't stay with you
For learning to love.

Yes, I lived with you as if in a fairy tale,
I saw love in your eyes
I remember sunsets, night and caresses,
Weaving bodies in satin sheets.

A leaf in tears, I'm sorry, the words are blurry,
I keep taking them off my eyelashes
Believe me, it's hard for me, my soul is broken,
At least put your hand under the infernal syringe.

You are the best thing in my life
You taught the heart to fly in a dream,
You believed that we had love until the feast,
But I can't give you the same.

Fate does not want simple happiness,
Love always gives with separation,
How hard it is to say goodbye to a loved one,
In whom the real feeling lives.
Goodbye...

E. Asadov.
Love letter

We are far apart. Now between us
Constellation patterns and whistling winds
Roads with trains running into the distance
Yes, a boring chain of telegraph poles.

As if feeling our separation,
Spreading poplar, sighing hotly,
Stretching to the window, a green hand
He put it on my shoulder in a friendly way.

The soul asks for some news,
We wait, light up with every line.
But they bring news not only in envelopes,
They sometimes pass through the walls to us.

Imagine that you hear the news about
That I was deceived along the way by a scoundrel,
That he extended his hand, as a friend, to an enemy,
And he pushed me in the back from the slope ...

The whole body is bruised, the lip is broken ...
What to do? False fate!
And let you be offended, anxious,
But you can believe. Is it possible!

And if suddenly the news, like a blizzard haze,
Will break in and say, in deaf words,
That death interrupted the unsung song
And circled my name with a black border.

Cheerful lips closed forever ...
Loss, it can not be understood, not measured!
Ridiculous! And yet you can believe
Only rocks are immortal, and I am a man!

But if you hear that spring time
For a new, for a ghostly happiness in pursuit
I have my heart not for you, but for another
Excitedly suddenly held out in the palm of your hand,

Let tears not splash, eyelashes do not tremble,
Trouble will not squeeze the prickly cold!
Do not believe! This cannot happen!
Do you hear? This will never be!

Poems about parting with a loved one
I'm sending you a farewell love letter
Catch my farewell message
It summed up all my former love,
Like a full breath, like a full breath!
I tell you these lines of love - goodbye!

When I look at couples in love, my heart shrinks and there is such longing in my soul that it seems that I will never survive it ... after all, we were once also happy ...
it hurts me so much ... it hurts to understand that this will never return ... my happiness, my love ... forgive me, and I forgive you ... thank you for everything that was, for what is, for what you live somewhere and smile at someone, kiss someone, and think about someone .. forgive me my love and I forgive you .... I wish you happiness ... Goodbye ...

Everything that was between us, what we lived and breathed,
Everything melted like a dream, and a spiritual groan is heard ...
In the heart - empty, in the head - thoughts only about you ...
You have become so dear to me, as I need air!
How to live without you now, I can't imagine, as if
There was no life before without you...
Do you remember our walks in the dark evenings?
What was this real happiness, we did not understand ...
Do you remember touches, kisses, hugs,
Phrases about love and tenderness in the eyes?
And from these memories the soul cries in pain,
A tear runs down my cheek again
Walls break from the beating of the heart
And at the speed of light the blood runs through the veins...
And washing with tears, and choking with pain,
I understand that I want to be only with you!
But this will not be, we failed to save
The love that gave us the strength to live...
We destroyed everything with our own hands
What happiness and joy brought us,
Played with love ... and played out -
With broken hearts with you, we remained ...
All that was hard to forget
It may even be impossible...
But it's better to forget.
Let's try to be strong!
Forget the love that was between us
The one that completely captured the hearts,
Let's try to continue as before to live
And maybe even love...
Let's try to throw off the past mask of love,
All that was between us come on
We will keep in our hearts as a memory ...
Like a fairy tale....!

I'm writing a farewell letter
I write in verse, not prose.
Words merge into one
And burst into tears...
Forgot about me? Didn't write to me...
You must have found another...
Well, I won't be jealous
So it looks like it was fate.
Now I don't sleep at night
I whisper the name in the dark..
And tears are pouring on the bed
I can't forget you...
So I want to scream sometimes
I love you, I won't forget you
I capture moments of life
As I read your letters...
And the end of parting will not come,
And wishes won't come true
And happiness passed us by
I have memories...

Let go!
Let go! Open my fingers on my fingers,
You're already squeezing them white.
Let go! I love you, but you understand me
Suddenly, I'm already in flight, and not in a fall.
Get away! Despite the last minutes
How love prepares for self-immolation.
Get away! If your eyes look without love
Let go! Don't prolong the torment.
Does not burn! And she, you know, the bastard, does not burn,
I dug into my heart, only her sobs are heard.
To hell with her, let me fly through the sky
An eternal sentence for edification ...

Everything is gone, I already forgot the pain
Everything is gone, but I have not forgiven
Those words, that love, promises
But I said goodbye to you.
Goodbye warmth and hope
I will look at parting as before
I will stretch my hand to you with pain,
And I'll pull back, saying goodbye to love!

You promised me happiness forever
That you are my closest person
That nothing will separate us from you,
No one will stand in the way of you and me.
What about in the final? Everything in general, as always,
Love dissipated, you left me
Breaking my heart into many pieces,
Leaving your mark on a wounded soul.
Now I'm left on my own
But why is it that I only breathe you,
And I can't get you out of my head
Everything is somewhere in the past with you I live ...

Your love, treasure and happiness,
What I have never seen before in my life
Unexpected and painful for the heart
Forever for myself I lost.
She was pure, bright and so beautiful
Like an angel descended from heaven
It turned out to be so dangerous for me to love her,
It was like a demon possessed me.
I lost my peace and clarity of thought,
I forgot the last time I slept
It became harder to breathe while thinking,
That the happiness of life never knew.
Love, I will not forgive you in my life
The pain that gave my heart
I won't let you in now
I want to forget the way to me.

That's it, the Rubicon has been crossed
And there is no turning back for us.
Out of sight and out of mind...
From love only on the heart trace

In the form of a wound, sick and deep,
Nothing, it will heal and pass.
I will not stay, believe me, lonely -
And my happiness will find me!

I'm not sorry that it happened -
I am a fatalist and believe in fate.
Nothing, nothing happened...
Our past is taboo.

Don't blame and don't scream
Don't throw a tantrum
And don't trample me anymore -
That's enough, all feelings are gone.

We disperse - and put an end to it.
Your insults, tears, insults
No one else needs.

If you can, I'm sorry
No, take revenge.

And please, let me go!
Don't watch me anymore and don't call me!!!

Goodbye poems to your girlfriend, woman, beloved boyfriend, man, farewell letter
You said: "Let's say goodbye?"
And I said, "Go away!
We have nothing more to meet
Others will be on the way."
You said: "For what? For what?"
I was silent for a little breath.
And you asked: "Will it be easier?"
And I just said "yes"
You begged: "Let's forget?
What happened before is just nonsense!
And I said "We won't
To meet with you more. No!"
You came up, hugged my shoulders,
Last said: "I'm sorry"
And suddenly it somehow became easier for me,
But I said: "Go away!"
And he left, slamming the door.
I quickly rushed to the window.
He hid behind a tall spruce,
I whispered, "I can't!"
And quickly ran after
I wanted to fall at his feet
But I didn't win that race
I let go of my dreams.
And I came home crying
And knowing that he won't come.
I thought, "I'm sick!
Now it pisses me off."
I loved so much, I dreamed so much
Just spend your life with him.
And endlessly repeated
Last words: "I'm sorry"

The heart is now so light and calm,
I remember you without tears
And having met you, I don’t have a gram, it doesn’t hurt
I'm not sorry for my dreams that you broke

With you, we had both bitter and sweet
Fate divorced, so it is destined
Now I will live without looking back
For what we can't live

Now I'm ready, forgetting the pain of separation
Start from scratch, look for your happiness
And when I meet you, I stretch out my hands to you,
As a faithful friend shake them tightly

Well, I wish you goodbye
Be happy, go through life with luck
Mind and patience, rewards for deeds
Find the love that you wanted to find.

Him from Her
This is my last letter to You, Sunshine! My last words ... Let them be full of our Love, which burned everything around with its fire, including ourselves.
We stayed to live, each on the edge of his own world: lonely, yearning for sunny emotions, for our cozy seaside hotel and sleepy palm trees.
We will never forget these short and sweet moments. And Praise the Lord for giving us memory and giving us a couple of flashes of the Miracle called Love.
I will always love only You, my dear.

On various topics (from temporary separation to parting forever).

…
At the crossroads of parting, we stand side by side,
Now let's take a step and stop everything.
Goodbye. You were the bridge in the life of happy moments.
Goodbye. We will no longer hear the beat of our hearts ...

…
I say quietly, goodbye ... I close my eyes ...
In my thoughts I send a kiss.
Receive SMS, and then delete.
Farewell, our bridges we have long been divorced.

…
Farewell notes sounded in fate,
These chords speak of you for the last time.
They complete the path of our hearts.
While dear. Goodbye. This is the end.

…
In a glass of water, the taste is farewell,
The look on his face is a little sad.
Goodbye dear, if you can, forgive me.
I see no reason for us to go together.

…
We had different moments
But the time has come for us to part.
Farewell darling, this time will soon pass
And again on the waves of happiness will carry us.

…
The time of parting will pass imperceptibly,
Though this move is sad for us.
Farewell dear, the main thing is to wait.
The rains will not last long.

…
The train of separation drove up to us,
But this is no reason to give up.
Raise them higher, be patient, wait right ...
Farewell is not forever, the cold and rain will pass.

…
Goodbye dear, it's over...
There will be more lights and flowers in life.
There will be happiness, there will be passion.
Look under your feet more often so as not to fall.

…
Everything was beautiful with us, tell me ...
But ahead, parting, flowers are waiting for us.
They smell of sadness
The train of separation drove up, honked a sound ...

…
Beloved, the word "goodbye" is like an evil bee,
It stings painfully, places swell ...
But time will pass, it will heal everything.
And the crack of parting between us will heal.

…
Farewell SMS to your girlfriend
We will survive this separation, my sun.
And we will cross the river of separation ...
Goodbye dear, goodbye and sorry
Soon our flowers of happiness will bloom.

…
(Lovely name) there are moments in life,
When moments of separation come to visit.
Survive them, you only need to wait,
And again to receive a sweet slice with the happiness of an orange ...

…
My sun, goodbye and endure
After all, who knows how to endure, the lights are brighter.
He is strong with his will, he is just cool,
Remember, true love has been waiting for centuries.

…
The sun has set and there is no light.
So, separation in a relationship makes a move.
She will close the way for us to each other, but the main thing is to wait,
Wait and remember, the lights of farewell will soon go out ...

Let a warm ray of sunshine into your life...